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Critical Knowledge

Pitfalls in Australian Family Law

These are the traps, mistakes, and overlooked issues that catch people off guard when entering the Australian family law system. Knowledge is your best protection.

Not Understanding De Facto Rights

HIGH RISK

Many Australians don't realise that de facto relationships (including same-sex) create the same property rights as marriage after just 2 years. Moving in together, sharing finances, or having a child can trigger legal obligations. Your partner may be entitled to a share of assets you brought into the relationship.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Get a Binding Financial Agreement (BFA) before or early in the relationship
  • Keep clear records of pre-relationship assets and their values
  • Understand that cohabitation for 2+ years creates legal rights
  • Seek legal advice before combining finances or adding names to property
Legislation

Family Law Act 1975, Section 4AA — De Facto Relationships

Financial Risk

Could cost you 20-50% of your pre-relationship assets

The 12-Month Time Limit for Property Claims

CRITICAL RISK

After divorce, you have only 12 months to file a property settlement application with the court. For de facto relationships, the limit is 2 years from separation. After this deadline, you need special leave from the court, which is difficult to obtain. Many people miss this deadline and lose their rights entirely.

How to Protect Yourself

  • File your application well before the deadline — don't wait until the last minute
  • If negotiating, file a protective application to preserve your rights
  • Set calendar reminders for key deadlines from your date of separation/divorce
  • Seek legal advice immediately upon separation
Legislation

Family Law Act 1975, Section 44(3) — Time Limits

Financial Risk

Could lose your entire entitlement to property settlement

Verbal Agreements Are Not Enforceable

HIGH RISK

Many separating couples make verbal agreements about property, children, or finances. These are not legally enforceable. Without a Consent Order or Binding Financial Agreement, your ex-partner can change their mind at any time. Even written agreements that aren't properly executed are often unenforceable.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Always formalise agreements through Consent Orders (filed with the court)
  • Alternatively, use a Binding Financial Agreement (requires independent legal advice for both parties)
  • Never rely on verbal promises — even from someone you trust
  • Keep written records of all discussions and agreements
Legislation

Family Law Act 1975, Section 79A — Setting Aside Orders

Financial Risk

$5,000-$15,000 to formalise, but saves potentially hundreds of thousands

Social Media Can Destroy Your Case

HIGH RISK

Everything you post on social media can be used as evidence in family law proceedings. Photos of holidays, new purchases, or lifestyle can undermine claims of financial hardship. Angry posts about your ex can affect parenting assessments. Even 'private' messages can be subpoenaed.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Lock down all social media accounts immediately upon separation
  • Do not post about your ex, your case, or your finances
  • Assume everything you post will be shown to a judge
  • Do not communicate with your ex through social media — use email or a parenting app
Legislation

Evidence Act 1995 — Relevance and Admissibility

Financial Risk

Can completely undermine your credibility and case outcome

Hidden Assets and Non-Disclosure

CRITICAL RISK

Both parties have a legal duty of full and frank financial disclosure. However, many people attempt to hide assets through trusts, company structures, cryptocurrency, overseas accounts, or transferring assets to family members. If caught, the consequences are severe — including adverse inferences and cost orders.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Engage a forensic accountant if you suspect hidden assets
  • Request subpoenas for bank records, tax returns, and company documents
  • Check for cryptocurrency holdings, offshore accounts, and trust structures
  • Always comply with your own disclosure obligations — non-compliance has severe penalties
Legislation

Family Law Rules 2004, Rule 13.04 — Duty of Disclosure

Financial Risk

Hidden assets can be worth hundreds of thousands; forensic accounting costs $5,000-$20,000

Assuming 50/50 Custody Is Automatic

MEDIUM RISK

Many parents assume they will automatically get 50/50 time with their children. The law provides for equal shared parental RESPONSIBILITY (decision-making), not equal time. The court considers what arrangement is in the child's best interests, which may or may not be equal time. Factors include the child's age, practical arrangements, and each parent's capacity.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Focus on the child's best interests, not your 'rights' to time
  • Propose a practical parenting plan that works for the children's routine
  • Consider the children's school, activities, and social connections
  • Be flexible and willing to negotiate — courts favour cooperative parents
Legislation

Family Law Act 1975, Section 65DAA — Court Must Consider Equal Time

Financial Risk

Litigation over parenting can cost $30,000-$100,000+

Not Getting Independent Legal Advice for BFAs

HIGH RISK

Binding Financial Agreements (prenups/postnups) can be set aside if both parties did not receive independent legal advice, or if the advice was inadequate. Many BFAs have been overturned because the legal advice certificate was deficient. This means the agreement you relied on may be worthless.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Both parties MUST get separate, independent legal advice from different lawyers
  • Ensure the lawyer provides a proper Section 90G certificate
  • Allow adequate time for both parties to consider the agreement — no pressure
  • Ensure full financial disclosure accompanies the BFA
Legislation

Family Law Act 1975, Section 90G — Requirements for BFAs

Financial Risk

A defective BFA can cost you the entire protection you thought you had

Superannuation — The Forgotten Asset

MEDIUM RISK

Superannuation is often the second-largest asset after the family home, yet many people overlook it in property settlements. Super can be split between parties and must be included in the asset pool. Failing to claim your share of your ex's super can mean losing tens or hundreds of thousands of dollars.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Get a current valuation of ALL superannuation accounts for both parties
  • Include super in any property settlement negotiation
  • Understand the difference between accumulation and defined benefit schemes
  • Consider a superannuation splitting order as part of your settlement
Legislation

Family Law Act 1975, Part VIIIB — Superannuation

Financial Risk

Average super balance for 45-54 year olds is $150,000+ — don't leave it on the table

Moving Out of the Family Home

MEDIUM RISK

Many people believe that moving out of the family home means giving up their claim to it. This is NOT true — you retain your property rights regardless of who lives in the home. However, moving out can affect parenting arrangements and may make it harder to return. It can also create financial pressure if you're paying rent elsewhere while still contributing to the mortgage.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Understand that leaving does NOT forfeit your property rights
  • If you leave, document why (especially if due to violence)
  • Continue contributing to the mortgage if possible to protect your interest
  • Seek legal advice BEFORE moving out about the implications for parenting
Legislation

Family Law Act 1975, Section 79 — Property Settlement

Financial Risk

Temporary accommodation costs $15,000-$30,000/year while waiting for settlement

Ignoring Tax Implications of Settlement

MEDIUM RISK

Property transfers between spouses as part of a family law settlement are generally exempt from stamp duty and CGT. However, this only applies if the transfer is pursuant to a court order or BFA. Informal transfers may trigger significant tax liabilities. Additionally, the receiving party inherits the original cost base for CGT purposes.

How to Protect Yourself

  • Always transfer property pursuant to a court order or BFA for tax exemptions
  • Get tax advice before agreeing to take specific assets (especially investment properties)
  • Understand the CGT implications of receiving assets with low cost bases
  • Consider the after-tax value of assets, not just their market value
Legislation

Income Tax Assessment Act 1997, Subdivision 126-A — CGT Rollover

Financial Risk

CGT on a $500,000 investment property could be $50,000-$100,000+

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